[1.3] Preparing for Gluten v1.3.0-rc0 (#8552)

* bump to 1.3.0

* remove parameters for release

[1.3] Preparing for Gluten v1.3.0-rc0 (#8552)

* bump to 1.3.0

* remove parameters for release

[VL] Remove an out-of-date warning message (#8447)

Preparing for Gltuen v1.2.1-rc0 (#8110)

Preparing for Gltuen v1.2.1-rc0 (#8110)

[GLUTEN-7126][VL][1.2] Port #6698 #7525 #7560 for Uniffle bug fix (#7994

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 [VL][1.2]Port PR #6901 for license and notice issue in binary jar an…

…d upgrade OAP Velox version to gluten-1.2.1 (#6941)

* [GLUTEN-6902][VL]fix: Update to copy new LICENSE, NOTICE into jar (#6901)

* Update to copy new LICENSE, NOTICE into jar

* exclude more files

* update OAP's Velox version to gluten-1.2.1

 [VL][1.2]Port PR #6901 for license and notice issue in binary jar an…

…d upgrade OAP Velox version to gluten-1.2.1 (#6941)

* [GLUTEN-6902][VL]fix: Update to copy new LICENSE, NOTICE into jar (#6901)

* Update to copy new LICENSE, NOTICE into jar

* exclude more files

* update OAP's Velox version to gluten-1.2.1

Update OAP Velox to gluten-1.2.0 (#6801)

[VL] Branch-1.2: port PR #6503 PR #6515 PR #6554 (#6595)

* [GLUTEN-6501][VL] Fix the missing fileReadProperties when constructing a LocalFilesNode (#6503)

* [GLUTEN-6477][VL] Fix occasional dead lock during spilling (#6515)

* [VL] Add thread_safe to several VeloxRuntime classes (#6526)

VeloxRuntime is shared by many threads, like task threads or parquet writter threads. We must make sure the objects hold by VeloxRuntime are thread safe.

* [VL] Following #6526, minor fixes and improvements (#6554)

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Co-authored-by: zhaokuo <zhaokuo_game@163.com>
Co-authored-by: Hongze Zhang <hongze.zhang@intel.com>
Co-authored-by: BInwei Yang <felixybw@apache.org>