Stamp: Dear Fetish Communities

EDIT: Disabling comments. As I've said this stamp as a lot of outdated opinions but my main point is still you are NOT a horrible person just for having a kink. It's how you control it and if you respect peoples boundaries or not. This is NOT an anti-fetish stamp so for those who are anti-fetish, don't fucking use this to categorize EVERYONE who has a fetish -_-.

Edit: As of late, people have been misunderstanding the purpose of this stamp and using it to support their anti-kink views.
I wanna make it VERY clear that this stamp is NOT anti kink. I have a few kinks myself as mentioned, the purpose of this stamp is to teach people who have kinks like me how to be RESPONSIBLE and healthy with them. And for the record I made this stamp a few years ago, so some of the opinions might be a bit outdated.


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Take note BEFORE you read this stamp, this is NOT to insult people with fetishes in any form. I may talk shit about some communities, but I'm not talking shit about people WITH any of these fetishes, so don't assume anything please kthx. I have a few kinks of my own, but I'm responsible with them (and I barely draw them tbh, or don't draw them at all)

After reading a whole bunch of shit, and I MEAN A LOT of shit. Things like these:
, and piink-lemonade.deviantart.com/…, AND people who are getting angry because others are putting their artwork into their fetish folders when it wasn't even supposed to be fetish related...
I FEEL LIKE I SHOULD REALLY FUCKING SAY SOMETHING TO THE FETISH COMMUNITIES.

Seriously, ya'll need to knock it the fuck off. Coming from someone who has a few kinks, learn a thing or two called RESPONSIBILITY with your kinks. Let me explain what I mean by this:
It's OKAY to like something, but you need to learn the LIMITS of what you can and can't do with your fetish, and what you should be careful of doing, what you should avoid, ETC.

#1.
ASK the art maker BEFORE including it in your fetish folder, because you NEVER know if you'll make them uncomfortable or not. That or don't do it at all.
A LOT of users seem to be going through this, which makes me feel really bad for the users who aren't associated with any fetishes. Their artwork is literally being seen as fap material to that said fetish community when it wasn't even MEAN'T to be seen as fetish work.

#2
DON'T FORCE YOUR FETISH ONTO PEOPLE. An example would be  if you try to commission/request an artist a fetish piece and they decline, DO NOT EVER attempt to force them to draw it anyway.
This seems to be a huge issue when it comes to people who do commissions and requests from what I've been hearing by quite a few people. DON'T try to force someone out of their comfort zone when it comes to their own art, whether you're paying them or not. They're not your personal factory, commissioners have rules for a reason, perhaps they're uncomfortable with fetish art (which is usually the main reason), maybe they don't want that type of stuff in their gallery, maybe they DON'T have a reason at all. Whatever it is, respect their rules and DON'T force them to do something they don't wish to do.

#3
Put it in MATURE CONTENT if it needs it.

There are a few fetishes that don't really need mature content when they're ALONE (like for example: In the hypnosis community if it's just a character being hypnotized and nothing more, yeah that's fine, no need for mature content), but if it escalates further or gets sexual, yeah it DOES need mature content. There are QUITE a few fetishes in my own personal opinion that should be in mature content. Heres a short list of what I believe needs mature content.

Big Boobs/Butts
Bondage if it contains any nudity or sexual theme
Any fetish involving stripping of clothing or nudity
Hypnosis if it contains sexual themes
Tentacles if there's anything sexual going on
Slimes if said characters have visible nipples or genitals showing

There are more but my brain isn't working atm. There are some fetishes that themselves alone probably don't need mature content in, but there are A LOT of fetishes that do need mature content. If your fetish needs mature content and someone says to you that it does, DO NOT attempt to argue with them, as you might be called out on it.

#4
Don't HARASS people with your fetish
This means going to other peoples pages who ARE NOT associated with the fetish in any way or form and trying to get them involved in it, ESPECIALLY without their consent. Not only is this fucking creepy, but it also counts as forcing your fetish upon people. ASK THEM FIRST PEOPLE JFC, If they say no and get snappy (Expect them to be snappy because you probably made them extremely uncomfortable), respect that and move on.
#5
Don't fill your gallery with JUST fetish art.
This might give you off as a VERY creepy person if you're not careful with your gallery. Don't put JUST fetish works in your gallery, add some normal works within your gallery too. People might judge you otherwise if they go check your gallery and see nothing but fetish art. It's okay to like something, but DON'T obsess with it like that.

#6.
ASK BEFORE you draw fetish art of someone elses OC.
Seriously, DO NOT do this without the OC owner's consent, ESPECIALLY THEIR PERSONAS IF THEY HAVE ANY. You never know if they are extremely uncomfortable with fetishes or not, or that said fetish in general. If you do it anyway, chances are YOU ARE going to get called out on it and possibly even ranted on. Think before you perform your actions, people. This goes for commissioning someone to draw fetish art of that character too. ASK THE ORIGINAL OWNER BEFORE GETTING SOMEONE ELSES OC INVOLVED. If they say no, THAT MEANS NO, DO NOT do it anyway.

#7
DON'T FETISHIZE CHILDREN FOR FUCKS SAKE.
NEVER FETISHIZE AN UNDERAGED CHARACTER, this is VERY creepy in so many levels. It also breaks deviantarts rules. Even if you attempt to age the character up, it's still against the rules.
help.deviantart.com/248/
"Characters which have been portrayed as a range of ages in their original media will be classified as underage or not based upon their average age over the series. Attempts to "age" the characters in order to depict them in a manner which would otherwise be prohibited will not be granted any exception."A VERY popular fetishized character whom is underaged is a ten year old Pokemon character known as May. I have no idea why the fuck people fetishize a ten year old girl but it's CLEARLY pedophilia. SO DON'T DO THIS IF YA'LL DON'T WANNA END UP IN TROUBLE OKAY? OKAY.


#8
Don't upload someone elses art work to a fetish website or a fetish group without their consent.
People have done this with some of my hypnosis pieces, even when it WASN'T sexual in any shape or form, just regular hypnosis. They uploaded it to a site known as HypnoHub, which is a very well known hypnosis porn website.
I FREAKED the fuck out about this because that website gives me the creeps due to the ads. An admin eventually saw my struggling with these types of people and now my persona, along with my artwork is banned from Hypnohub. So if anyone tried to take my work or other peoples work of my persona under hypnosis, HypnoHub WILL remove it (Seriously, why the hell can't dA's admins be as awesome as the admins on that site?).
Uploading someones artwork and treating it as if it was yours in general is bad enough, but uploading it to fetish sites and fetish groups is VERY disgusting if you do not have their permission.

#9.
For fucks sake quit fetishizing real people.
THIS IS LITERALLY EVERYWHERE IN ANY FETISH COMMUNITY, Vore, Hypnosis, Big breasts, pregnancy, ETC. People will fetishize real people AND without their consent, this happens a LOT to celebrities. I find this going too far in my personal opinion because real people should NOT be seen as your fap material if that was not their intention. If it's your own persona, THAT'S fine. But if it's someone elses, or if it's a REAL person's photo, DON'T do this.

There's probably a lot more I'm forgetting, but I'll update this stamp occasionally if I have to.

Bottom line: Be RESPONSIBLE with your fetish/fetishes people. The communities are getting TOO FUCKING out of hand now. THERE ARE people who are responsible with their fetish in the communities, but because of people like this, they're becoming unknown and hidden behind all of the sick fucks.



Holy fuck this was a LONG type for such a simple stamp. But yeah, this stamp is free to use, no need to ask!