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By Emily Ashby , based on child development research. How do we rate?
Reality show lets family members walk in each other's shoes.
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What's the Story?
In PARENTS JUST DON'T UNDERSTAND, host Joey Fatone mediates role reversals for real-life kids and their parents so each can see what it's like to live in the other's shoes. Fielding volunteers from kids' video submissions, each episode centers on a different family, swapping the daily routines of one grown-up and one tween. Whether it's football practice and class projects or packing lunches before heading off to work, there's no telling how things will play out when parents and kids switch roles and attempt to be each other for the day or how the experience will change how they relate to each other in the future.
Is It Any Good?
At first glance, this reality series sounds like an invitation for kids' complaints about the underappreciated grown-ups in their lives, but parents in the audience will be pleased to know that's not the case. Yes, each story begins with a tween bemoaning the details of his or her rough life (feeling overly scheduled, excessive responsibilities at home, and so on) and parents responding with varying degrees of incredulity. But, rather than harp on contention, the show's focus quickly evolves to conflict resolution. Each party makes a to-do list for the other (and gets in a few digs about how easy swapping roles will be), and, from the moment the alarm rings the next morning, the "Freaky Friday"-inspired experiment begins.
Naturally the results are often comical -- usually related to mild catastrophes for one party or the other, of course -- but the process also has some really hearty messages that remind families how important it is to talk about problems and to listen to each other. Many of the scenarios will sound familiar to parents and kids in the audience ("I have too many chores" or "You take me for granted," for example), so the lessons the participants learn will have relevance for viewers as well. The content of this well-constructed show even manages to outshine the sporadic presence of Fatone, who lets the parents and kids have the center stage while he assumes a counseling role of sorts. The bottom line? Broad-spectrum appeal is a challenge for most reality shows, but Parents Just Don't Understand is a fun and meaningful pick for families.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about how the participants' experiences on Parents Just Don't Understand compare to their own. Does your family face the same kinds of challenges with regard to scheduling, work, and school? Do these kids have more or fewer responsibilities than yours do?
Kids: How are tasks assigned in your house? Do you think the process is fair? If you were in charge, how would you do things differently?
How real do you think reality TV is in general? Would your life make a very interesting reality show? Why is this genre so popular right now? What, if anything, can we learn from watching other people's lives play out on the screen?
How does Parents Just Don't Understand promote empathy? Why is this an important character strength?
TV Details
- Premiere date: August 23, 2014
- Cast: Joey Fatone
- Network: Discovery Family Channel
- Genre: Reality TV
- Topics: Brothers and Sisters , Great Boy Role Models , Great Girl Role Models
- Character Strengths: Empathy
- TV rating: TV-PG
- Last updated: October 14, 2022
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