Parents' Guide to

Friends

TV NBC , Syndicated Comedy 1994
Friends TV Poster Image: The main cast under the show's title

Common Sense Media Review

By Betsy Wallace , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 14+

Popular 1990s sitcom is hilarious but dated; innuendo.

Parents Need to Know

Why Age 14+?

Any Positive Content?

Parent and Kid Reviews

age 13+

Based on 91 parent reviews

age 18+

Ruined with constant sex promotion

Sex is promoted strongly, as something to be aimed for. Drinking is also promoted. I would say this isn’t suitable for Christians and anyone under 18 due to its content. It’s a shame tv ruins stuff like this as it has the potential to be decent
age 11+

Great

I think that this is a great show and is very funny but it is inappropriate at times. I think this would be appropriate for children at the age of 11 or up but if your child is not mature maybe wait for a wee while.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say (91 ):
Kids say (496 ):

While the characters take on more responsibility over the course of the series, in most ways the friends cling to their idiosyncrasies and compulsions rather than display more maturity. Jokes that lampoon personality traits are one of the series' weaknesses. For example, Joey's "libido" (which borders on predatory behavior, like when Rachel jokes that "taking care of a drunk naked woman sounds like a job for Joey!" and he lunges for the woman, only to be held back by Chandler). Or Chandler's wimpiness (he's sometimes made fun of for "seeming gay"). And then there's the unrealistic picture of New York City as being mostly White. Many of the show's juicier plot developments were obviously thrown in to boost ratings and sometimes seem borrowed from soap operas. Still, the writing can be intelligent, and the acting is skillful. Longtime fans are often rewarded with jokes that reference past episodes and personality quirks; familiarity makes this show all the funnier.

There are trade-offs for families to consider. The comedy may be inappropriate for kids, and yet the storytelling can be more original and thought-provoking than in sitcoms geared specifically to younger viewers. Characters' contradictions and mistakes make them questionable role models but also account for why so many viewers relate to them. The friends frequently talk through their problems openly and honestly with one another, which could be viewed as a model for communication within families.

TV Details

Did we miss something on diversity?

Research shows a connection between kids' healthy self-esteem and positive portrayals in media. That's why we've added a new "Diverse Representations" section to our reviews that will be rolling out on an ongoing basis. You can help us help kids by suggesting a diversity update.

Common Sense Media's unbiased ratings are created by expert reviewers and aren't influenced by the product's creators or by any of our funders, affiliates, or partners.

See how we rate