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The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel

Movie PG-13 2012 122 minutes
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Sandie Angulo Chen By Sandie Angulo Chen , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 13+

Fabulously acted retiree drama will appeal more to parents.

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Why Age 13+?

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 12+

Based on 7 parent reviews

age 13+

You think it goes down one road and then it pleasantly surprises you

I thought this was going to be elderly Eat Pray Love, but it is much more than that. It is a film that is chock full of egregious talent and you think is going to go one way and surprises you with gentle folds in its narrative. Maggie Smith is odious, heartbreaking, and lovely all in one film...fantastic! Wilkinson's character is heart wrenching and Nighy and Dench dance around each other splendidly. India itself gets short shrift and does come off as an exotic locale (although it is in the title it comes off more tongue-in-cheek). Wonderful emotion and lovely acting.
age 16+

marigold

OK movie but is HIGHLY aimed for adults there is SEX THROUGHOUT like kissing throughout plus old people are trying to get married and even try to change there name to prince of Kent, or John Smith, or even Princess Margaret to seem for attractive to other people. Also sadness like old woman's husband dying and more. There is one some nudity: a brief shot of a woman completely naked before going to bed and a naked man dancing in the shower. Also there is a man refers to himself as gay multiple times, DRINKING THROUGHOUT, racism to people from India, and some language like b**tards, and f*** and a few uses of sod it.

What's the Story?

The brochure for THE BEST EXOTIC MARIGOLD HOTEL, an all-inclusive resort for "the elderly and beautiful" in India, convinces a motley crew of English seniors to book a stay there. Evelyn (Judi Dench), a recently widowed housewife, is looking for her first real adventure; Graham (Tom Wilkinson), a retired high-court judge, is returning to the commonwealth home of his youth; The Ainsleys (Bill Nighy and Penelope Wilton) lost their savings and need a place to reset; racist Mrs. Donnelly (Maggie Smith) needs a hip replacement at an Indian hospital; and Norma (Celia Imrie) and Norman (Ronald Pickup) are lonely and looking for love. Running the hotel is young Sonny (Dev Patel), who desperately needs the idea to be a success, or his doting mother will ship him back to Delhi and force him into an arranged marriage.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
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This is a perfectly enjoyable "take your mother to the movies" pick, but it would also make a fine "show the kids how it's done" selection. Leave it to the English to show Hollywood that a dramedy starring a who's who of seniors (at 59, Imrie is the youngest cast member) can be loads funnier, sweeter, and more romantic than the kind of forgettable fluff that passes for romcoms here week in and week out. The stellar cast (featuring both of the Downton Abbey grandes dames!) is fabulous, but what else would you expect from such a winning group of British thespians? Not only is it a delight to watch Smith play a narrow-minded, working-class woman for once, but it's also amazing to see Nighy, who often romances much younger actresses on screen, paired up with someone older than him.

The plot is admittedly thin, but that doesn't stop director John Madden from exploring the taboo issues of getting older: depression, sexuality, dissatisfaction, even death. But all of the transformations are captured in a way that's touching and humorous to witness. Audiences completely unaware or unappreciative of dry British humor may not "get" some of the subtler, genius lines, but the dialogue is full of rich, laugh-aloud lines. Take the sarcastic witticisms of snarky Mrs. Ainsley, who barks at her husband: "When I want your opinion, I'll give it to you."

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel's messages about transformation and travel. Does the movie make you want to visit India or somewhere else you've never been?

  • Why are there so few movies and TV shows that feature older characters? Teens: Does seeing a mostly 60-and-up cast make you not want to see a movie? Why?

  • What does the movie have to say about romantic relationships? Which of the relationships in the movie are healthy, and which aren't?

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