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Spencer

Movie R 2021 119 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

Danny Brogan By Danny Brogan , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 14+

Royal biopic tackles mental health, bulimia; some language.

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age 16+

Based on 5 parent reviews

age 14+

Good but dark

First off, Kristen Stewart did an amazing job with this role. She played the part perfectly given the script that she was handed. But, this movie is dark. I agree that the R rating seems a little odd. There's nothing outwardly offensive in my humble opinion; however, the themes are adult and the movie doesn't hide any of the ugliness of bulimia. The cursing is probably nothing worse that anything a middle schooler has heard and almost no nudity at all, except a slight bit of side boob. I didn't just love the movie, mostly probably because it's hard content and dark. Personally I felt they made Diana look a bit more crazy than I had ever envisioned her, but I cannot say that it isn't accurate. Her loneliness is palpable. The movie is very well done but I felt it was hard to watch.
age 18+

Slow and beautiful.

If you appreciated the slow and beautiful Visconti film Death in Venice, and, like the eerie treatment M. Night Shyamalan brings to a film, you will appreciate this movie. If you are looking for a movie you can kick back to with a bag of popcorn, this flick may not be for you. Now, don't get me wrong, I like to kick back with a bag of Popcorn and watch The Odd Couple just like anyone else. I'm just saying this film is not like that. While I would recommend this film, I would also want it understood what you are about to view is more "film" or "cinema" rather than "movie".

What's the Story?

In SPENCER, it's 1991 and Princess Diana (Kristen Stewart) must spend the Christmas holidays with the British royal family, despite the fact her marriage is falling apart. Feeling alone and with her mental health becoming increasingly fragile, it proves to be a pivotal Christmas for not just Diana, but the entire British monarchy.

Is It Any Good?

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Boasting a mesmerizing performance from Stewart, this imagining of a three-day Christmas celebration with the British royal family looks at the break down of both Diana's marriage and mental health. The title Spencer is taken from Diana's maiden name. In other words, it's the name she went by in the first 20 years of her life, before she married Prince Charles and became a member of the British monarchy, who -- as depicted in the movie -- controlled her every move. Pablo Larrain's excellent film focuses on Diana's attempts to reclaim her independence and freedom, a return to when she was simply Diana Spencer. But leaving -- and in essence, defying -- the British royal family is not an easy task. It's made all the more difficult for Diana with the arrival of former soldier, Major Alistar Gregory -- played superbly by an unflinching and uncompromising Timothy Spall -- brought in especially to keep Diana "in line."

The movie is bleak yet funny, depressing yet uplifting, and it's to Stewart's credit that she rides these emotions seamlessly. Stewart perfectly captures Diana's mannerisms and softly spoken voice so despite not naturally looking like her in the way that Emma Corrin in The Crown does, you're never not feeling as though you're watching the lady dubbed the "Queen of Hearts." It's also worth noting that Stewart herself has been on the receiving end of much press intrusion as experienced by Diana in the film. Much like Larrain's other female biopic, Jackie, this is powerful and enticing portrayal of one of the world's most talked about women.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how mental illness was portrayed in Spencer. How was Diana's mental health portrayed? Did you think it was an accurate portrayal? Discuss how mental illness is portrayed in other movies you may have seen.

  • Diana was shown to be living with an eating disorder. Were you surprised by this? If so, why? What do you think causes the onset of an eating disorder? What resources can you use if you or someone you know has an eating disorder?

  • Talk about the strong language used in the movie. Did it seem necessary or excessive? What did it contribute to the movie?

  • Did you think Diana liked being part of the British royal family? Why/why not?

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