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Mature content in Gomez' raw mental health doc; language.
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Selena Gomez: My Mind & Me
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What's the Story?
SELENA GOMEZ: MY MIND & ME follows the singer/actor over the course of six years, through music and promotional tours, a life-changing trip to Kenya, and the Covid-19 pandemic. After being diagnosed with bipolar disorder, Gomez searches for a greater purpose in an effort to both find and bring happiness.
Is It Any Good?
In 2009, Gomez sang, "Tell Me Something I Don't Know"; in 2022, the singer makes good on that promise to her audience in this astonishingly raw documentary. The film opens with scenes of her as a 23-year-old preparing for a concert tour with laughter and jokes about costumes, but the rehearsal ends in buckets of tears, revealing insecurity, self-doubt, and anxiety on a level that will surprise her fans. Writer-director Alek Keshishian, known for making waves with Madonna: Truth or Dare, follows Gomez for six years, as she goes through major ups and downs that lead to not just personal growth, but also transformation.
Gomez opens up her diary to share her feelings of unworthiness with viewers, revelations that eventually shift to show a young woman realizing her value. But even though she does open up her diary, she's not an open book: Plenty of details remain private. (Fans hoping to get tea on Gomez' relationship with ex-boyfriend Justin Bieber won't just be disappointed, but they may also feel guilty for wanting to know more.) The film is really Gomez' search for purpose, and it appears she realized while filming the documentary that this was the platform to fulfill it. Gomez has always known she's a role model, and her generosity and kindness are evident throughout. But the film shows her discovering that those qualities -- plus her personal struggles -- can help create meaningful change. In revealing her diagnosis with bipolar disorder, how it affected her life, how she's managing it, and how she came to embrace her mental health as part of her wholeness, she's making herself into the poster child for "mental illness" in hopes that it will become "mental acceptance." For someone with anxiety, it's an act of courage. For parents with kids who are struggling, it's a godsend.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about how Selena Gomez: My Mind & Me portrays mental illness. How does it compare to other movies and TV shows you've seen on the topic?
How does Gomez demonstrate courage in opening up about her struggle with anxiety, depression, and bipolar disorder? How might her decision to share her story help create change?
The documentary tackles the idea of finding your purpose in life. Do you think everyone has a specific purpose? Parents, discuss ways your teens can begin to find their purpose.
Movie Details
- On DVD or streaming: November 4, 2022
- Cast: Selena Gomez
- Director: Alek Keshishian
- Inclusion Information: Female actors, Latino actors
- Studio: Apple TV+
- Genre: Documentary
- Topics: Friendship , Great Girl Role Models
- Character Strengths: Communication , Courage , Gratitude
- Run time: 95 minutes
- MPAA rating: R
- MPAA explanation: language
- Last updated: February 17, 2023
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