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L'immensità

Movie NR 2023 99 minutes
L'immensità movie poster: Luana Giuliani sits on steps, eating an ice cream, beside Penelope Cruz

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Kat Halstead By Kat Halstead , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 12+

Italian drama has language, sexual threat, domestic abuse.

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What's the Story?

In L'IMMENSITÀ, an upper middle-class family struggle with their relationships and identities in 1970s Rome. The marriage between Clara (Penélope Cruz) and her abusive husband Felice (Vincenao Amato) is volatile, and their child Adri (Luana Giuliani) battles with getting their gender identity accepted. Clara's close relationship with her three kids offers much-needed warmth, a sense of fun, and an occasional glimmer of freedom. But tensions take their toll all round, and soon the family find themselves at breaking point.

Is It Any Good?

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Cruz is almost unnaturally luminous as a struggling but free-spirited matriarch in this Italian family drama that's at times dark, surreal, vibrant, and heart-wrenching. Veteran director Emanuele Crialese sets the story of L'immensità in the center of Rome, paying tribute to both his city of birth and his own experiences as a trans man. It's in this role of Adriana/Andrea/Adri that newcomer Giuliani really shines alongside Cruz, expressing a frustration and sense of helplessness that his parents "made me wrong," and neither he nor those around him seem to have the language or understanding to support his gender dysphoria. "Inside everything another thing is always hiding," says a teacher during a science lesson, and this is also true for Cruz's Clara, who's living with her own lack of power and freedom, stuck in an abusive marriage in a Catholic community where the very concept of leaving is immediately scoffed at and dismissed. The dreamlike musical interludes then make sense for both characters, who have every reason to escape into fantasy where they can be their true selves without the burden of the expectations and limitations imposed by those around them. It can make the narrative feel a little disjointed when singing and dancing breaks out at the dinner table, at school, or at moments of emotional intensity, but it adds additional flourishes of visual style and wonder to what is already a beautifully rendered film.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about Adri's experience in L'immensità. How did the character express his gender at home and in public? What limitations were put on him by others? Can you think of other films that deal with young people experiencing gender dysphoria? How do they compare? How are their trans or gender-non-conforming characters portrayed? How much freedom do they have to be their true selves?

  • Talk about the violence in the movie. Did you find any scenes distressing? What consequences were there? Does exposure to violent media desensitize kids to violence?

  • Talk about some of the language used. Did it seem necessary or excessive? What did it contribute to the movie?

  • Clara doesn't entirely know how to support Adri in living as a trans male, but shows great compassion for her son. Why is compassion an important character strength? Can you think of times in your own life when someone has shown compassion toward you and it's had an impact?

  • How was smoking depicted in the film? Was it glamorized? Do you think our behavior when it comes to smoking has changed from when the movie was set?

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