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Kindness Is Contagious

Movie NR 2015 75 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

Tracy Moore By Tracy Moore , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 9+

Warm, feel-good docu about being nice is uplifting.

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age 9+

Based on 1 parent review

age 9+

Good, down to earth documentary. Great to show in a Leadership class. Advance notice - guy who talks about Mon(k)day talks about his "sh*t-eating grin", but that's it!

What's the Story?

They say nice guys finish last, but KINDNESS IS CONTAGIOUS compiles research, anecdotes, and persuasive theories to argue that nice guys can and do finish first, if we can think of changing the world not as an intimidating, hopeless goal but a real and possible one if we each operate on an individual level of kindness.

Is It Any Good?

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This documentary is not particularly slick or sexy; rather, it's a quiet, unassuming message that being a nice person benefits the individual, the community, and the world. But it's not only wishful thinking; studies show that altruism has benefits, and people prefer romantic partners who are nice, people who volunteer to help others live longer, and we put greater trust in people we believe to be genuinely nice. What's more, being kind at work leads to bigger pay raises and more promotions, and everyone is worse off when we follow narrow self-interest rather than simply taking a minute to help another person.

Though there isn't a lot visually here to make Kindness is Contagious sing, the biggest takeaway may be that kindness can be viral and that even the smallest acts of graciousness matter enormously. Some stories, such as the one about a music teacher whose neighbor loaned him a piano he desperately needed for his students, will not bowl you over, but they will remind you that little gestures mean a lot, especially when we all take those nice acts and pass them on to others. There are strong messages here for older kids with the attention span for the research and theories.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the nicest thing anyone did for them. How did it make you feel? What's the nicest thing you've done for someone else? What happened? Did Kindness Is Contagious make you want to be more kind? What are some ways to add more kindness to your life?

  • Do you agree that nice guys can finish first? Why, or why not?

  • How does Kindness is Contagious promote compassion and integrity? What about gratitude and empathy? Why are these important character strengths?

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