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Intense drama about loss; sex, language, heavy drinking.
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Good Grief
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What's the Story?
Comfortable and settled artist Marc (Dan Levy) loses his life-of-the-party husband, Oliver (Luke Evans), in a car crash in the opening act of GOOD GRIEF. The loss propels him on a journey to rebuild his life, which he slowly begins to do with the help of best friends Thomas (Himesh Patel), also a former boyfriend, and free spirit Sophie (Ruth Negga). But as the anniversary of Oliver's death approaches, Marc discovers his husband was living a double life, with a new love and an apartment in Paris Marc knew nothing about. Traveling with his friends, who are unaware of these revelations, to Paris, also home to potential new love interest Theo (Arnaud Valois), Marc must come to terms with new layers of loss.
Is It Any Good?
Fans of Schitt's Creek's Dan Levy might have hoped for more from his feature directorial debut, but this drama has enough to make its characters, central ideas, and locations a compelling watch. Good Grief aims to craft a heartfelt portrayal of the processes of grief and adulting in your 30s. Its trio of lead characters, best friends with complicated and intertwined love lives, are the kind of flawed but always-there-for-you relationships you might hope to have in your own life. (The lovely and likable Negga and Patel make sure of this.) Likewise, Levy's gorgeously curated settings and wardrobes, beginning with an overly staged opening holiday party scene and traveling from London to a Parisian flat at the foot of the Eiffel Tower, dream up a privileged world that it's hard to blame anyone for wanting to live in.
His character does inhabit this world, which could make him less relatable for some viewers (imagine the Rose family of Schitt's Creek having never lost their privilege). Levy's aware of this: His character is called a "spoiled brat" by his best friend, and the third friend's partying goes from kooky to problematic. But the film isn't fully capable of piercing through its construction of this idealized world to convey the genuine study of love and loss it proposes. It's not until a scene deep into the tale where Levy and a new love interest, played by Arnaud Valois, share secrets over a late-night meal that it dawns on you the film hasn't yet allowed any of its characters this much profundity. The third act aims to remedy this by gently deconstructing what's been set up in the first two acts, just as its core threesome has to crack through the identities they've created to move on with their lives.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about the stages of grief Marc goes through in Good Grief. Does the portrayal feel realistic to you? Why, or why not?
What do the main characters learn about themselves and each other throughout this movie? Why do you think they have to spend some time apart to move forward with their individual lives?
How would you describe the settings for this film? Why do you think writer-director Levy chose London and Paris to set this story?
What stands out to you about the music in the movie? What mood does the music set? Can you think of any specific examples?
Movie Details
- On DVD or streaming: January 5, 2024
- Cast: Dan Levy , Ruth Negga , Himesh Patel
- Director: Dan Levy
- Inclusion Information: Female actors, Black actors, Multiracial actors, Indian/South Asian actors
- Studio: Netflix
- Genre: Drama
- Topics: Friendship
- Run time: 100 minutes
- MPAA rating: R
- MPAA explanation: language and brief drug use
- Last updated: May 24, 2024
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