Incarcerated men talk about where they got their nicknames, including one stemming from the word "murder." Young girls have nightmares, anger issues, separation anxiety, and even suicidal thoughts, some of which is caused or aggravated by their fathers' actions and long-term incarceration.
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The film is about an ongoing project called the "Date with Dad" program.
Positive Messages
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Fathers help shape how their kids grow up, and what kind of adults they become. Children need physical and emotional support from their parents, as well as consistency. People deserve second chances. Crimes result in penalties. "If you don't define yourself, the world will define you." Intact families help build thriving communities. Forgiving is hard.
Positive Role Models
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The incarcerated dads gamely participate in life and fatherhood coaching sessions, getting honest with their feelings and supporting each other. Some, though not all, express regret for their past actions and their limited roles in their children's lives. The founder of the "Date with Dad" program demonstrates the importance of empowering Black girls and women, and finding ways to motivate imprisoned Black men to stay out of jail and be present for their families.
Diverse Representations
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All of the people participating in the "Date with Dad" program in this documentary are Black. Some of the men refer to issues of systemic racism by talking about a lack of opportunities, growing up in dangerous neighborhoods, being in and out of the prison system since they were young, and knowing no other life. The program helps young girls find their voices. The girls in the film, with support from their moms, are also seen thriving in school, celebrating life events, and graduating from high school.
Parents need to know that Daughters is an emotional film tackling mature issues in documenting a program that brings girls to prison for a day-long gathering with their incarcerated fathers. The founder of the program and all of the participants shown in the film are Black. Issues of systemic racism are touched on, and the men have all committed crimes involving lengthy sentences. One man's nickname stems from the word "murder." Girls have nightmares, anger issues, separation anxiety, and even suicidal thoughts, but they also are seen thriving in school, celebrating life events, and graduating high school. Language, mostly in music lyrics, includes "hell," "ass," "bitch," "p---y," "butt," and use of the "N" word. A man talks about "messing with" a girl when he was a teen, leading to a teen pregnancy. The men gain valuable lessons in the coaching that takes place before the gathering, and the girls benefit from seeing and touching their fathers. To stay in the loop on more movies like this, you can sign up for weekly Family Movie Night emails.
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What's the Story?
In DAUGHTERS, a group of incarcerated men in Washington, DC are invited to participate in a daddy-daughter dance event. For many, it will be the first time in years they are allowed to spend time in person with their daughters. They must agree first to 10 weeks of fatherhood and life coaching sessions as a group. Here, they will share their feelings about their lives, being in prison, what fatherhood means to them, and their hopes and plans. Meanwhile, their daughters, ages 5 to 15, also prepare for the dance. Each struggles to fill the hole of their missing fathers.
With surprising access both inside and outside of prison, this heartrending documentary touches on a range of personal and social topics solely through its subjects' words and experiences. Daughters makes its commentary through its topic choice and its filming and editing, rather than any added editorializing about the circumstances around the incarcerated dads and their growing daughters. Couched in their stories are messages about systemic racism, shortcomings of the prison system, the important role of parents in a child's life, and the power of community.
Interviews and footage help relay the personalities of individual girls and men. In the group coaching sessions, one man reveals he doesn't usually have the opportunity to talk honestly and share his emotions. Some viewers might miss more candor about why these men have been incarcerated (in one case for up to 30 years). But that's not the focus of Daughters, and it would be hard not to get swept up in the emotional human stories on display. One storyline is constructed to suggest the contact helped a teenage girl go from suicidal to high school graduation. Closing credits tell us that 95% of the dads in the "Date with Dad" program, founded by co-director Patton, don't return to prison.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about the program "Date with Dad," which is behind the dance documented in Daughters. What is your opinion of this program, its rationale, and its outcomes? Where can you find more information?
How do the dads, daughters, and the moms all show courage and communication? Why are these qualities essential for this program to work?
Did you find the film emotional to watch? Were there any specific scenes or sections that impacted you especially as a viewer?
The film doesn't specify the men's crimes. Would your view of the dads change if you knew more about why they were in prison? Is this important to know? Why or why not?
The film makes use of natural light, in homes, on the street, and in the prison footage. What mood does the lighting evoke for you? Can you think of any specific examples?
MPAA explanation:
some thematic elements and language
Last updated:
August 14, 2024
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