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Unique, affecting, mature drama about life and growing up.
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Boyhood
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What's the Story?
In BOYHOOD, Mason (Ellar Coltrane) literally grows up on camera, from age 5 to age 18. During this time, he faces life's little triumphs and tragedies, starting with divorced parents. His mother (Patricia Arquette) gets married again -- to a man who becomes increasingly drunk and abusive. He forces Mason to cut his long hair into a short crew cut, and eventually Mason, his mother, and his sister (Lorelei Linklater) must make their escape and start life anew. Mason's divorced father (Ethan Hawke) visits every so often for ball games, camping, and haphazard advice, and Mason encounters bullies, girls, and becomes interested in photography. The story ends as he goes off to college, meets his roommate and a new girl, and discovers that life is full of possibility.
Is It Any Good?
Director Richard Linklater accomplished something truly visionary with Boyhood. Over the course of 13 years, beginning in 2002, he filmed Coltrane each year, whenever scheduling allowed, adding to the script a bit at a time. The result is a true existential experience, a masterpiece. It's not driven by plot -- it can't return to pick up past plot threads -- but rather by life itself.
But Boyhood is far from a mere reality show. Linklater's thoughtful dialogue abounds, and the characters are constantly thinking and asking questions about their lives. Certain memories are never recovered (the promise of a GTO), and losses are never regained (the fate of the step-siblings), but characters learn from mistakes and pain and continue to move forward. The film has dozens of magical, memorable moments, from the early description of how wasps are made to a special Beatles mix CD. It's nearly three hours long, but it moves by nearly as quickly as life does.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about the sequence with the alcoholic, abusive stepfather. How much tension is generated, and how much violence is actually shown? What's the overall effect? Did the movie need to show more or less?
Teens occasionally experiment with drugs and alcohol in Boyhood. How does the movie view these sequences? Is it right or wrong for teens to experiment? What are the consequences, if any, of these actions?
How early do these characters become interested in romantic relationships? What do they learn?
What are some of the lessons learned in this movie? What disappointments or failures did characters have to overcome? How did they overcome them?
Did you have any difficulty watching a movie of this length and with this format? How is it different from more mainstream movies?
Movie Details
- In theaters: July 11, 2014
- On DVD or streaming: January 6, 2015
- Cast: Ethan Hawke , Patricia Arquette , Ellar Coltrane
- Director: Richard Linklater
- Inclusion Information: Female actors
- Studio: IFC Entertainment
- Genre: Drama
- Topics: Brothers and Sisters
- Run time: 166 minutes
- MPAA rating: R
- MPAA explanation: language including sexual references, and for teen drug and alcohol use
- Awards: Academy Award , Golden Globe - Golden Globe Award Winner
- Last updated: August 25, 2024
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