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We Are Grateful: Otsaliheliga

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Jan Carr By Jan Carr , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 3+

Warm celebration of Cherokee families' year-round gratitude.

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What's the Story?

In WE ARE GRATEFUL: OSTALIHELIGA, Cherokee people say "Ostaliheliga," to express gratitude daily and throughout the four seasons. In the fall, Cherokee New Year, they gather for the Great Moon Ceremony, dance with shell shakers, remember "our ancestors who suffered hardship and loss on the Trail of Tears," and collect brush for weaving baskets. In winter, elders share stories as families eat bean bread and hominy soup, and older kids teach younger ones to make cornhusk dolls and play cane flutes. In spring, men sing to ask for protection for the crops, and kids plant strawberries, gather wild onions, and make moccasins and clay pots. In summer, families catch crawdads and gather for the Green Corn Ceremony and the Cherokee National Holiday.

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All readers can be grateful for the authentic Cherokee representation in this book celebrating contemporary families and their daily, year-round practice of gratitude. If books for kids about Native Americans have been predominantly historical, set pre-1900, We Are Grateful: Otsaliheliga provides a welcome current representation. It's nation specific, written by an enrolled member of the Cherokee Nation, so Cherokee readers will recognize themselves and their families, and other readers can meet relatable kids who are pictured riding bikes, playing in a tree house, launching toy sailboats, and making a snowman, as well as families that gather for picnics, holiday meals, and celebrations.The book is structured around the four seasons, starting with fall, which we learn is the Cherokee New Year, as well as the time of the Great New Moon Ceremony.

The mesh of educational information with everyday detail is an easy weave, and the book includes Cherokee words, and a friendly pronunciation guide, as well as a Cherokee syllabary, and a page of "Definitions" that explain some concepts, such as the Trial of Tears, more fully. The art, by Frené Lessac, is brightly colored and appealing, and the book's message -- that it's important to give thanks, "to celebrate our blessings and reflect on struggles" -- is universal.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the gratitude practiced in We Are Grateful: Otsaliheliga. Do you and your family have ways to regularly express gratitude? What are you thankful for? Can you make your own list that goes through the seasons?

  • Do you and your family celebrate any holidays that are specific to your community? Did your ancestors have hardship and make sacrifices that you honor today?

  • Do the families in the book represent you and your community? In what ways are they similar?

  • Did you know about the Trail of Tears? How did so many people from the Cherokee nation end up in Oklahoma if they were originally from the southeastern United States?

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