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Show Way

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Common Sense Media Review

By Matt Berman , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 6+

Beautiful story of family's journey from slavery to freedom.

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age 7+

Based on 4 parent reviews

age 8+

Excellent Read

I just read Show Way as multicultural children's book and was very pleased. I enjoyed the wonderful illustrations that brought each text to life on every page. I especially enjoyed the fact that it allowed for long conversation about brave women who never stopped believing in one day living a free life.
age 7+

What's the Story?

In SHOW WAY, author Jacqueline Woodson draws on the lives of each of her female ancestors on her mother's side of the family, covering nine generations up to her daughter. She begins with a little unnamed girl sold away from her family at a young age, who learns to sew quilts, called Show Ways, that show the road to freedom. Her daughter, Mathis May, is also sold away, and also learns to sew the Show Ways. When freedom comes, the daughters in the family continue to learn how to sew beautiful quilts, which they sell to earn a living. Eventually some of them learn to read, become teachers, participate in the civil rights movement, and on down to the author, who becomes a writer who still sews quilts, and has a daughter, to whom she tells the stories of her family.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say (4 ):
Kids say (1 ):

This beautiful story traces nine generations of African American women and has spectacular art. Some of the pictures are gorgeous watercolor paintings, some are historical collages, and some are visual metaphors, such as one showing a map of the U.S. with the states crudely sewn together and a large, frayed rip along the Mason-Dixon line. The rich, complex, two-page, borderless pictures reward repeated viewings and close inspection.

The text is wonderfully written, with recurring motifs about mother love and roads of stars, quilts, and stories. But there are many references that some younger children may not understand, such when characters are said to have "jumped broom" (a wedding ceremony tradition). The author refers to "the north side of the war," but doesn't say which war. So Show Way is probably best shared with an adult.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the history referenced in Show Way. What was slavery and how did it end?

  • What happened to enslaved people after they were freed by President Abraham Lincoln when the U.S. Civil War was still going on? What happened after the Civil War ended?

  • What was the civil rights movement? How is life for Black Americans different now than before it happened? How different is it since your parents were kids?

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