Repro: https://codesandbox.io/s/focus-trap-react-issue-forked-jgei7y?file=/src/App.js

Hello! Thanks for maintaining this library, I just discovered it recently and it's been a huge help. I have however run into this one issue, I believe its a bug but may just be something I'm doing wrong.

In short, when I pass callbacks into the onDeactivate/onPostDeactivate/clickOutsideDeactivates if those callbacks use parent state, the callbacks seem to never be updated past the first render. In general it seems like no updates to the focusTrapOptions trigger a rerender of the FocusTrap at all after initial render. (with the exception of the call to setActive in my example above) but I suspect this is due to active being passed in as its own prop.

For the repo above:

Expected behavior:
num is initialized to 0
The app renders the number 100 after the useEffect is triggered.
Activating then deactivating the Focus Trap should cause the number 100 to be logged as the most recent value of num.

Actual behavior:
num is initialized to 0
The app renders the number 100 after the useEffect is triggered.
Activating then deactivating the Focus Trap logs 0 to the console.