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Mentoring mindset #425

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@bobahop bobahop commented Jan 16, 2023

Thoughts on the mentoring mindset

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bobahop commented Jan 16, 2023

@ErikSchierboom please let me know of anything that should be deleted, added or rephrased.

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Lovely content!

They may say something like "Why do I have to do so-and-so?"
It may feel as if they are complaining in the manner of, "Why do I have to eat my peas? I _hate_ peas!"
You may be put off from mentoring the person because they seem to be off to a confrontational start.
But what can seem like defiance or a complaint could just be a simple inquiry, even if expressed a bit abruptly.
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Maybe also mention that for most students, English is not their native tongue, which could also influence the way they're phrasing things?

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Put in a note for that.

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Another way the cooperative spirit works is by the mentor learning from the mentee.
During the course of the session the mentee may bring up something the mentor doesn't know.
A mentor is not expected to present an "all-knowing" facade.
It's perfectly fine for a mentor to express that they didn't know or had not thought of something the mentee brings up.
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Maybe mention that this will be a great experience for the student too? I loved it when mentors said I'd taught them something.

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Added a line for that.

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Co-authored-by: Erik Schierboom <erik_schierboom@hotmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Erik Schierboom <erik_schierboom@hotmail.com>
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@bobahop Let me know when you're happy for me to merge!

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bobahop commented Jan 17, 2023

I be happy, thanks!

@ErikSchierboom ErikSchierboom merged commit c29be76 into exercism:main Jan 17, 2023
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Done! Thanks

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Live: https://exercism.org/docs/mentoring/mindset !

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bobahop commented Jan 17, 2023

Thanks! I've started to work on Mentoring Tips next...

@bobahop bobahop deleted the mentoring-mindset branch January 17, 2023 12:12
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