update Oto: bug fix: crash when the window was inactive and the audio…

… was suspended on Windows

Updates ebitengine/oto#179

do not require installing file2byteslice to update go generate'd file…

…s. (hajimehoshi#2221)

The tool is already referenced in go.mod, so it is trivial to just go run it -
that way, go generate can use it without the user explicitly installing it first.

internal/gamepad: improve resetting vibrations

internal/gamepad: bug fix: release IDirectInputDevice8W on disconnecting

Closes hajimehoshi#2205

ebitenutil: fix typo

Closes hajimehoshi#2194

internal/ui: better fix for initialMonitorByOS

Updates hajimehoshi#2179

internal/graphicsdriver/directx: bug fix: clear constant buffers at t…

…he end of DrawTriangles

Constant buffers should not be reset while a stencil buffer is used.

Closes hajimehoshi#2138

internal/graphicsdriver/metal: bug fix: the default driver must be in…

…itialized on the main thread

Closes hajimehoshi#2147

internal/graphicsdriver/directx: bug fix: disable fullscreen by Alt+E…

…nter

By default, DirectX 12 tries to make the window fullscreen by Alt+Enter.
This caused application crashes. Let's disable this feature.

Closes hajimehoshi#2123

Revert commits for Oto

This reverts these commits
* aef06f3.
* 77b67d0.

Reason: see hajimehoshi#2118 (comment)