### What changes were proposed in this pull request?

The dev/github_jira_sync.py does not work well these days, this PR tries to solve this issue by using a much more reliable service - https://cwiki.apache.org/confluence/display/INFRA/Git+-+.asf.yaml+features#Git.asf.yamlfeatures-Jiranotificationoptions

And maybe we can remove dev/github_jira_sync.py but I don't know where we run this script yet.
### Why are the changes needed?

for jira and github sync

### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?

no

### How was this patch tested?

Took a tour of a few Apache projects

### Was this patch authored or co-authored using generative AI tooling?

no

Closes apache#42750 from yaooqinn/SPARK-44942.

Authored-by: Kent Yao <yao@apache.org>
Signed-off-by: Dongjoon Hyun <dhyun@apple.com>