This adds a new capability for renderers (React DOM, React Native):
prevent a tree from being displayed until it is ready, showing a
fallback if necessary, but without blocking the React components from
being evaluated in the meantime.

A concrete example is CSS loading: React DOM can block a commit from
being applied until the stylesheet has loaded. This allows us to load
the CSS asynchronously, while also preventing a flash of unstyled
content. Images and fonts are some of the other use cases.

You can think of this as "Suspense for the commit phase". Traditional
Suspense, i.e. with `use`, blocking during the render phase: React
cannot proceed with rendering until the data is available. But in the
case of things like stylesheets, you don't need the CSS in order to
evaluate the component. It just needs to be loaded before the tree is
committed. Because React buffers its side effects and mutations, it can
do work in parallel while the stylesheets load in the background.

Like regular Suspense, a "suspensey" stylesheet or image will trigger
the nearest Suspense fallback if it hasn't loaded yet. For now, though,
we only do this for non-urgent updates, like with startTransition. If
you render a suspensey resource during an urgent update, it will revert
to today's behavior. (We may or may not add a way to suspend the commit
during an urgent update in the future.)

In this PR, I have implemented this capability in the reconciler via new
methods added to the host config. I've used our internal React "no-op"
renderer to write tests that demonstrate the feature. I have not yet
implemented Suspensey CSS, images, etc in React DOM. @gnoff and I will
work on that in subsequent PRs.

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