From 095c4340d924039a44b092fbdd8a93e68ec01f0b Mon Sep 17 00:00:00 2001 From: Bob Hoeppner <32035397+bobahop@users.noreply.github.com> Date: Wed, 11 Jan 2023 12:17:03 -0600 Subject: [PATCH] Update mindset.md --- mentoring/mindset.md | 8 ++++++++ 1 file changed, 8 insertions(+) diff --git a/mentoring/mindset.md b/mentoring/mindset.md index 98d34a46..12c373bf 100644 --- a/mentoring/mindset.md +++ b/mentoring/mindset.md @@ -53,6 +53,14 @@ A mentor whose spirit is based on humility is still human, and may be tempted to curt or argumentative way. Even a person with the best intentions needs to be vigilant when having a bad day. +There is a third spirit which is a variant on the spirit of pride, and that is the spirit of insecurity. +A mentor may feel insecure about their reputation and seek validation from mentees as a way to compensate. +They may overwhelm the mentee with voluminous data and references to show how well-informed they are. +The mentee may get useful information out of such a data-dump, but that is the secondary objective of the insecure mentor. +The primary objective is to demonstrate how knowledgeable the mentor is. +Although motivated by a different objective, the insecure mentor may still succeed in achieving the goals of the Exercism mindset +to the extent they don't lose the mentee in the weeds. + ## The spirit of the truth Factual correctness is certainly important and has its place.